Frankie couldn’t stay angry, though she was sure Dean was lying about not remembering her. How could she be mad when they were so completely undignified? Magnificently silly. Willing to send themselves up at the slightest opportunity, prostrate themselves, admit to frailties. Dean openly mocked himself and acted almost ashamed of his straight-A marks. Alpha wasn’t embarrassed that he’d barely made it up the easy course on the rock wall; he sweated on people and made fun of his own physique. And Matthew—well, she couldn’t have been mad at Matthew, anyway.
These guys, they were so sure of their places in life—so deeply confident of their merit and their future—they didn’t need any kind of front at all.
The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks by E. Lockhart (via arcanities)
this book legitimately has the best insights on the way class plays out in interpersonal and small-scale social interactions and power dynamics i have ever seen, i am not exaggerating at all, it is ASTOUNDING.
(via isabelthespy)
i love this passage so much! on the surface, it seems self-contradicting in a way: it’s quite obvious that the boys do (believe they) need a front in order to maintain their ‘places in life’ and that’s precisely why, as daughter-of-psychologists trish points out, they pretty much collectively pretend not to remember frankie.
but this passage is transmitted through the lens of pre-basset hound frankie, whose understanding of the dynamics of the boys deepens throughout the novel, as she watches alpha not be able to admit to his failings and takes great pleasure in forcing him to maintain a front for months. because, of course, you can admit only to the frailties which don’t actively threaten your position.
this is why self-deprecation seems to be to be a particularly — though not exclusively — brand of upper-class front. if you can afford to admit to your own failings first & own them, it takes away the power of others to use shame/embarrassment as a tool against you. some people can’t afford to be self-deprecating, or can’t really be self-deprecating in a genuine way since they don’t have the baseline self-assurance that comes with being the right gender & class to pull it off, and it will be read as pitiable instead of as a show of strength. (frankie doesn’t have access to this: she has to work, and work hard, for what the boys take for granted, and she’s still not ultimately granted entrance to their club, both literally & figuratively). i’m reminded here of a very sharp, very funny friend of mine who regularly employs self-deprecating humour and is consequently constantly read as a dumb blonde.
on the surface, the behaviour of the bassets seems easy and enviable. but push a little further, like frankie does, & you realize that there the dogs have soft spots too, and there’s places where self-deprecation doesn’t work for them, either. what’s interesting are the failings that are too genuinely embarassing to admit to: like for instance, being upstaged by a girl.
(via battlestardidactica)
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